A Life of Gratitude

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

As we journey through the season of Lent, our gaze remains steadfast on the life led by our Savior, Jesus. Often, I ponder what it might have been like to witness Jesus in person. What would the timbre of His voice have been? How did He articulate His words? Which foods might He have favored? What nuances formed His sense of humor? While these curiosities may seem superficial, we find solace in the Scriptures, which offer us a glimpse into Jesus’s essence and His interactions with His disciples.

One trait of Jesus that resonates with me is His constant state of gratitude. He welcomed all who followed Him, including Pharisees, Sadducees, and teachers of the law, without turning away even those intent on persecuting and betraying Him. Despite instances of scarcity, there is no record of Jesus voicing complaints.

Reflecting on my own upbringing, there were moments when our family faced hardships. The bare shelves of our refrigerator and days when I relied on the kindness of the lunch lady are still vivid in my memory. The sight of my mother weeping alone in the car, my parents enduring the harsh environment of the dry cleaners, and my father nursing cuts from mending shoes are poignant reminders of struggle. It’s natural to dwell on our challenges and deficiencies, reacting with bitterness and resentment.

However, Jesus’s example teaches us that thanksgiving and gratitude are not only attitudes but also joys rooted in our identity in Christ. Choosing gratitude is essential, yet it naturally stems from our assurance in Him. It’s all too easy to succumb to grumbling, discontent, and criticism. Yet, as Christians, we are called to embody a continual spirit of gratitude and thanksgiving to God, who provides everything, including the gift of life and the lives of our neighbors.

Today’s scripture exhorts us to “Rejoice always.”

This command is absolute, encompassing every moment and situation. Misery often stems from a refusal to embrace gratitude, even for the seemingly mundane or irritating aspects of life. When we set unrealistic expectations on others or external circumstances for our joy and fulfillment, we inevitably find them lacking.

True, enduring gratitude begins with Christ—reflecting on His sacrifice, His love for us, and the hope He offers. It is in this realization that our gratitude becomes boundless, permeating every aspect of our daily existence.